Complimentary Dating Strategy Session with Joel Monteleone
What if dating actually got to be fun again?
Book a complimentary dating strategy session and find out what's really keeping you stuck, what to shift, and how to start attracting the relationship you actually want.
45 minutes · Complimentary · No obligation
You're not broken.
You're just doing it alone.
You're smart, successful, and you've done the therapy. You've read the books. You've tried the apps. And yet dating still feels like work, the same patterns keep showing up, and the people you actually want don't seem to be anywhere in sight.
The problem isn't that you're too picky or not putting yourself out there enough. It's that no one has ever sat down with you and said: here's what's actually happening, here's the one shift that changes everything, and here's how to make it stick.
That's what this call is.
What happens on the call
Clarity you can feel immediately.
Your dating baseline
We look at where you are right now: the types of people you've been attracting, the dates you've been going on, and the patterns you keep running into. No judgment, just clarity.
The belief that's running the show
Most dating frustration comes from one limiting belief that keeps reinforcing itself. I'll help you identify yours and show you how it's been shaping your results without you realizing it.
Your next move
You'll leave with a specific shift to try this week, whether that's how you show up on a date, how you're using the apps, or how you're approaching people in real life. Something concrete, not abstract.
Real results
They did the work. It worked.
I feel way more confident and positive in dating and feel like there's an abundance of interested men coming into my life.Rohini, 31
I made substantial improvements across the board. I'm more productive at work and I got into a great relationship.John, 27
This relationship would never have happened without Joel. Thankful for his gift of bringing great people together.Shelby, 30
I went to a singles event and felt like the most confident version of myself. More confident than I've felt in a long time. I know a big part of that is the work we've been doing.Coaching Client
I talked to him about the resistance to going all in. And then I relaxed into the surrender and cried in his arms. It felt so good to feel so safe.Coaching Client
We had a wonderful early Valentine's Day date last night. I feel like I am falling in love or already there.Kara, 37
Your coach
Hi, I'm Joel.
I'm a dating and relationship coach based in Austin. I host Hot Takes Hot Dates, the city's most popular live dating event, and I've spent three years coaching high-achieving people through the emotional intelligence work that actually leads to lasting relationships.
Unlike therapy, I'm not here to help you process the past. I'm here to help you show up differently starting this week. My clients text me before dates, after dates, and sometimes during dates. That's the kind of support that moves things forward.
The biggest thing I've learned: everyone is afraid to share what they actually want because they think it will push the other person away. I help you say the thing.
Book your session
Pick a time that works for you.
45 minutes, completely complimentary. No pitch, no pressure. Just a real conversation about what's going on and what could change.
Common questions
We talk about where you are in your dating life right now, what's been working, what hasn't, and the patterns you keep running into. I'll give you real, specific feedback and a clear next step you can act on immediately. Think of it as a sample of what coaching with me looks like.
Therapy is great for processing the past. Coaching is about changing what you do starting now. I give you tools, real-time support (you can text me when something comes up), and accountability to actually shift how you show up. Both are valuable, and they work well together.
No. A matchmaker finds people for you. I change how you attract them. This is mindset and emotional intelligence coaching applied to your dating life. When you show up differently, the quality of people you attract changes too.
This dating strategy session is completely complimentary. If we decide that ongoing coaching is the right fit, I'll walk you through what that looks like and the investment involved. There's no pressure on this call. Payment plans are available for those who move forward.
That's exactly who this call is for. Most of my clients felt "almost ready" when they booked. You don't need to have everything figured out. You just need to be open to the possibility that a small shift in how you approach dating could change everything.
It does. Three months is enough time to identify the pattern, shift the belief driving it, and practice showing up differently on real dates. My clients consistently report feeling more confident, more intentional, and more excited about dating within that window. Several have found lasting relationships.
Sessions are on Zoom, so you can work with me from anywhere. If you're local to Austin, in-person is always an option. You'll also have access to Hot Takes Hot Dates and other live events where you can meet people in real life.
Most of my clients haven't. I'm on your team, not observing from across the room. You can text me before a date, call me after a tough conversation, send me a screenshot of a message you're not sure how to respond to. It's active, real-time support from someone who has coached dozens of people through exactly what you're going through.
You're closer than
you think.
One conversation. That's all it takes to see what's been in the way and what's possible on the other side.