Filter the F**kboys | Joel Monteleone

Live Workshop

Filter the *F**kboys.*

A 90-minute live workshop for high-achieving women who are done attracting unavailable men online and in real life.

Wednesday, May 20 · 4:30 PM Central · Live on Google Meet

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Sound familiar?

You're doing everything right. But you're still single.

You text first. You plan the dates. You drive every conversation forward. Then you wonder why he seems passive.
Your dating profile is safe, polished, and forgettable. You wrote it to appeal to the most people instead of the right person.
You're crushing it at work, leading teams, building a career you're proud of. But dating feels like a problem you can't solve with more effort.
You keep meeting men who seem great at first and then slowly reveal they were never available to begin with.
You've read the books. You've done the journaling. You still feel like something invisible is blocking you.

This isn't a you problem. It's a pattern problem. And patterns can be broken in 90 minutes when you know exactly where to look.

Inside the workshop

Be. Do. Have.

Three shifts in 90 minutes. No fluff, no mantras, no vision boards. Just the practical framework that's helped Joel's clients get into relationships within 3 to 6 months.

Shift 01

Be. Reclaim your feminine energy.

You'll learn how to stop leading with the same energy that makes you successful at work and start showing up in a way that actually attracts the kind of man you want. This isn't about being passive or submissive. It's about being magnetic.

Shift 02

Do. Fix your filter (online and IRL).

We'll walk through your dating profile together and rebuild it so it repels the wrong men and pulls in the right ones. Then we'll cover the real-life version: where to go, how to show up at the places you already love, and what to do differently when you get there.

Shift 03

Have. Attract the man you actually want.

When your being shifts and your doing aligns, the having follows. You'll leave this workshop with a clear picture of your dream partner, a plan to meet him, and the confidence that comes from knowing exactly what to change.

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May 20 at 4:30 PM CT

This is for you if

You'll get the most from this if you…

You are a high-achieving woman who's successful in every area of life and still single
You tend to take charge in your relationships
Have been told (or secretly suspect) you might be "too much" or "too independent"
Are tired of situationships, breadcrumbing, and men who can't match your energy
Want practical, no-nonsense guidance from a male coach who actually understands how men think
Is ready to enter the relationship of their dreams in the next 6 months

Real results

What clients are saying.

"I feel way more confident and positive in dating and feel like there's an abundance of interested men coming into my life."

Rohini, 31

"We had a wonderful early Valentine's Day date last night. I feel like I am falling in love or already there."

Kara, 37

"This relationship would never have happened without Joel. Thankful for his gift of bringing great people together."

Shelby, 30

"I made substantial improvements across the board. I'm more productive at work and I got into a great relationship."

John, 27

"I went to a singles event and felt like the most confident version of myself. More confident than I've felt in a long time. I know a big part of that is the work we've been doing."

Coaching Client

"I talked to him about the resistance to going all in. And then I relaxed into the surrender and cried in his arms. It felt so good to feel so safe."

Coaching Client

Real talk

Questions you might have.

"I've heard the feminine energy thing before. Is this going to be woo-woo?"

No. Joel's entire approach is practical and no-nonsense. You won't be meditating or pulling oracle cards. You'll be looking at real patterns in your behavior and making specific, concrete changes. Think less guru, more strategist who happens to understand emotional intelligence.

"Is this actually worth it for 90 minutes?"

Joel charges thousands of dollars for one-on-one coaching. This workshop gives you the same core framework he uses with private clients, live and interactive, for a fraction of the investment. One shift in how you show up could save you months (or years) of dating the wrong person.

"I work during the day. What if I can't make it live?"

The workshop starts at 4:30 PM Central on a Tuesday, designed to fit after most workdays. That said, this is a live, interactive experience. You'll get far more out of being in the room than watching a replay.

"I'm not on dating apps. Does this still apply?"

Absolutely. A full third of the workshop focuses on filtering in real life: where to go, how to show up, and what signals you're sending without realizing it. The profile work is a bonus, not the whole picture.

"What if I've already tried coaching or therapy and nothing changed?"

Most coaching focuses on mindset alone. This workshop connects your mindset to specific actions and a clear plan. Joel's clients don't just feel better about dating. They get into relationships. Rohini was in a relationship within three months. The difference is practical application.

Your coach

Meet Joel.

Joel Monteleone is a relationship coach based in Austin, TX who helps high-achieving women attract the partner they actually want. His background is in emotional intelligence and leadership development, which means he doesn't deal in vague advice or wishful thinking. He deals in patterns, shifts, and results.

He's coached women from first dates to committed relationships in as little as three months. He hosts Hot Takes Hot Dates, Austin's premier singles event. And he's the kind of coach who will tell you exactly what's getting in your way, with kindness, not sugarcoating.

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May 20 · 4:30 PM Central

Stop dating his potential.
Start filtering for the real thing.

90 minutes. Three shifts. A clear plan to stop attracting unavailable men and start becoming the woman your dream partner is looking for.

Wednesday, May 20, 2026 · 4:30 PM Central · Live on Google Meet
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Filter the F**kboys.